we’re hooked….and maybe we shouldn’t be.

I’ve read a few posts lately about not using shampoo & about using a homemade face wash, which is a part of my 18 things to make in 2012 goals, but then I started discovering that she applied the same principle to many other areas.

Which got me thinking….

Maybe the only reason why we are dependent on so many of these things is because we’re so used to them, hooked, a self-created dependence. Or rather, marketed dependence.

we’re hooked…

I am so interested to try a lot of these money saving, simple, & green solutions to everyday hygiene. If they work, I estimate I’ll be saving our family upwords of $200 or more a year. With the potential to save a lot more, if the whole family embraces it.

So, take a look at one of my new favorite blogs, simplemom.net, she posts about a lot of great everyday and green solutions, sort of like Real Simple, but without the $5 price tag, per issue!

A few months ago we switched to Shaklee for our cleaning products, and got rid of a slu of other products (pictured below), and applying this same idea to other areas, may just be the makeover, or makeunder (as it were) this little life of mine needs.

goodbye unneccesary cleaning products

To de-commercialize, and break the dependences on so many of the products that I use.

I think it’s worth the experiment at least. Here’s to my attempt! I’ll update you on how it goes.

 

dear liam, (month five)

i think i say this every month, but the time… is passing… so quickly. i put those elipses there just to extend time for a smidge of a second. because time with you, is priceless to me.

every day is a gift. i am learning so much about you, and i think you about me. i am amazed, often, at how you know who i am, this humbling responsibility wakes me up to the reality of my legacy in you. you are a reflection, an extension of me, and i pray sweet liam that one day you’ll know the Creator that made you in my womb, and that you will worship him with us, freely, by your choice.

five months of absolute delight is what you’ve given us. don’t get me wrong sweet liam, there have been days where we wondered if we would make it out alive. especially about two weeks ago when you refused, REFUSED to nap, so instead of staying home for you to nap, i would go on errands, and you would fall asleep in the car, and i would sit, in a parking lot, somewhere in this town just so you could nap for longer than 30 minutes. it was a trying time, one that i don’t care to relive anytime in the near future. i think they call this wonder week 19, unfortunately, we have another wonder week around the corner, oh 26, i dread you!

that whole rolling over thing at month four really revved you up in your sleep, too, so much so that we didn’t know how to get you to go to sleep… we tried… everything. but now, you’ve settled into yourself a bit, you seem like you’ve got the sleeping on your belly or on your back thing down. and now that you’re consistently sleeping through the night (hip hip hooray!) i wish i could too.

you’ve been HUNGRY like the wolf! at one point i wasn’t enough for you, which made me really, really sad, but you’ve taken back to me now that you started eating rice cereal. learning to feed you from a spoon has been fun for me, and also really messy as opposed to our previous feeding times.

you are also slightly a drool monster, we couldn’t own enough bibs! you soak through three or more a day. it’s quite impressive. niagra falls should be jealous.

our friend laura beth, let us borrow their exersaucer which you just love! a few other things that you really love are the baby bjorn, especially with daddy, road trips, pulling hair, tummy time, milk!, and grabbing mommy’s mouth, nose, or whatever you can get to.

i suspect you are only days away from starting to crawl, you’ve already been in position too many times to count.

you love the sound of my voice and crane your neck to look at me wherever i am in the room, and i just love the affirmation of love that is inside that gesture.

i love hearing the beginning of your learning of language, those little sounds you are making, i love repeating them back to you, and you back to me, i love our conversations.

we’re amazed by you little L, and how you change, grow. we love your little personality, and how you enjoy us. it’s so heart-warming.

i can’t wait for you to read these… one day.

i love you. 

love,

your momma

Starbucks’ Cranberry Bliss Bars (in your own kitchen!)

I have a confession.

I am not a baker. No, not even a little bit.

I don’t like measuring out ingredients, scraping off the top of the cup of flour, no, not me, I’m a dump- it- all- in-and-see-how-it-turns -out type of cook (I think that’s why my chicken chili recipe is so successful.)

Nonetheless, I wanted to try to tackle this recipe because my friend Sarah, and talented cook has made them before and they were to die for. Just delicious.

Besides, to me, it’s an exercise in saving money. At $2 or more a piece in the Starbucks’ case, they aren’t necessarily budget friendly. But, make them at home, and they are both delicious and inexpensive.

watch out Starbucks, I'm about to steal your thunder. and you're about to stop stealing $2 from me!

So without further adieu,

Starbucks’ Cranberry Bliss Bars (in your own kitchen!)
(slightly adapted from Sarah’ Beakes recipe)

1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter (slightly softened)
1 1/4 cups brown sugar
3 eggs
1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla
2 teaspoons fresh orange zest
1 1/2 cups all purpose flour
1 teaspoon powdered ginger
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
3/4 teaspoon baking powder
3/4 cup dried, sweetened cranberries, chopped
6 ounces (about 3/4 cup) white chocolate chips
~ Frosting ~
4 ounces cream cheese, softened
2 Tablespoons butter
2 cups powdered sugar
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
1 teaspoon orange extract
1/2- 2/3 cup dried, sweetened cranberries, chopped
2 ounces white chocolate, melted
~ Directions ~
1.)  Preheat oven to 350 (F) degrees.  Grease a 9 x 13 pan then set aside (I lined the pan with parchment paper, leaving some hanging over the two long sides- this allows the bars to be pulled out of the pan after baking for easier cutting).
2.)  In a medium bowl add the flour, powdered ginger, salt, baking soda and baking powder.  Set bowl aside.
3.)  In a large bowl, cream the butter and brown sugar until smooth.  Add eggs, vanilla, and orange zest and mix well.  Gradually add the flour mixture and blend until combined.
4.)  Stir in cranberries and white chocolate.  Pour the batter into prepared pan and spread evenly.
5.)  Bake 25-30 minutes, until edges are light brown and a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean.
6.) Prepare frosting by beating the cream cheese and butter together until smooth.  Add the powdered sugar, vanilla and orange extract.  Beat about 1 minute until fully incorporated.
7.)  Assemble dessert by spreading the frosting onto the baked and cooled bars.  Sprinkle additional cranberries on top.  Drizzle melted white chocolate on top as desired.

Cut into fun shapes, like hearts! Great for Valentines day! Or anytime of the year really!

every good and perfect gift

…is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. 

Can I get an Amen?

We’re studying the book of James in my couples small group. I’m so in love with this book, with the man James, that God wholly inspired to write what may have been the first book of the new testament (chronologically).

The truth that resonates from these pages. Don’t be deceived! Consider it joy! Truth gives life! (and we’re not even done with the first chapter yet).

In today’s study this was an excerpt from Beth Moore… that I just loved and had to share…

James gives loud caution to his readers never to be duped into believing that the flesh gives and heaven takes away. Deep inside the marrow of our belief system, we are prone to think of God as the gigantic minus in a life full of pluses. Only by the integrated revelation of the Holy Spirit do we comprehend the great reversal: God gives and the flesh takes away. God bestows. The flesh bereaves.

God’s gifts are given with goals. They’re perfect because they’re perfecting. They don’t just give today. They give toward every tomorrow.

After taking a moment to reflect on the good gifts of God from our past in quarters, Beth states this…

If it was good, then it was God. If it was perfect, then its goal was precise.

I’m hiding this truth in my heart, good ammo for a rainy day!

don’t let comparison steal your joy!

just don’t.

don’t let it.

i almost did, just this morning. how ridiculous.

truth invade my heart.

via elembee.

18 things i want to make in 2012

You might have read my post about books I want to read in 2012, which, don’t be too surprised, but I’m almost done with my first book! Not to be too, totally cheesy, but I really love having goals!

If you’re jaded on the whole goal thing, here is a quick pick-me-up on the subject from one of my favorite leaders, Dave Ramsey!

Dave Ramsey’s suggestions in a quick nut-shell quoted from this article.

If you want to actually achieve your goals this year, then consider the following:

  1. Be specific.
    When setting goals, be specific in what you want to achieve. Vagueness will only cause you to feel overwhelmed, and you will just give up.
  2. Make your goals measureable.
    In order to know if you achieved the goal, it must be measurable. For example, if you want to lose weight, don’t simply write down “lose weight” as a goal. How much weight do you want to lose? Or don’t just write “spend more time with family.” How much time do you want to spend with your family every night?
  3. Are they your goals?
    Only you can set your own goals. If your spouse, co-worker or friend sets a goal for you, you’re not going to achieve it. Taking ownership will give you more incentive to meet your goal.
  4. Set a time limit.
    Setting a time frame will help you set realistic goals. For example, if you want to save more money, list how much money a month you want to put into your savings account.
  5. Put them in writing.
    Putting your goals in writing will make you much more likely to achieve them. Write down your goals and review them often. This will give you motivation to make them a reality.

This is the process to succeed. Successful people reassess their lives and then start living intentionally, in writing, on paper, on purpose. Make your resolutions a reality in this year!

so here they are, 18 things I want to make in 2012! also, pinned here. (on paper, on purpose!)

1. make homemade face wash

2. make homemade myers soap

3. make homemade bagels

4. make a winter wreath

5. make a spring & summer wreath (still looking for inspiration on this one)

6. make a fall wreath (this one too)

7. make homemade chicken stock

8. make homemade apple butter

9. make a headboard for the king or art for above (still looking for inspiration!)

10. have friends over for a meal at least once a month

11. make babyfood for baby L

12. make a bunting for the house

13. make homemade laundry detergent

14. make custom onesies (as baby shower gifts!)

15. start making homemade gifts

16. make homemade bread (my momma’s recipe is simply the best!)

17. make cloth envelopes

18. make a whiteboard and/or bulletin board for office

the word that chose me!

I posted, a bit prematurely about my one word here. I was so taken with One Thousand Gifts, but I knew, ultimately that the greek word Eucharisteo just wouldn’t do. It’s just not practical, I mean, does that ever come up in conversation, Eucharisteo? well no. I’m not in seminary and I’m not really friends with that many seminary students anymore.

So, after a conversation, or two, and influence from my pastor (it’s not about a fancy word, it’s about life-change and what God wants to do in you) that I needed to rethink things…

I knew that Eucharisteo is the exact idea of what I wanted to go for, and what God wants to do in me but, it just wasn’t the right fit.

Then a word chose me, for the first time. I’ll attempt to explain.

Have you ever had those moments where God chases after you with a truth? And it’s everywhere you look? That’s pretty much what happened here.

I know this because for a few months I’ve been thinking about the person I was becoming. I thought about my critical nature (ugh!), my propensity to compare myself to others, my playing over a bad scenario in my head.

I thought, “what if this isn’t how I’m meant to live?” What if my friendships could be deeper & more meaningful. What if I was able to capture my thoughts, and find thankfulness in the small things, the transforming power of a heart enlarged to the simple, gratitude, thankfulness, yes, all those things. But how is it captured in just ONE word.

I started praying it over. The type of person I want to become is thankful, is joyful, pays attention, doesn’t get swept away with negative emotion, is quick to listen and slow to speak. Who is that person? How do I become her?

That’s when God started chasing after me with one three letter word….

  • I started reading One Thousand Gifts. Which, is amazing. I truly love the book. I love Ann’s writing style. I love her candidness and her struggle at finding joy. Her quest is so real that it invaded me. I marveled at how her thankfulness found it’s way to more. She found joy in the smallness, the mundane, the difficult.
  • Then, I went to church, and Jeff Winchester, Leland campus pastor of Port City Community Church said his one word is Enjoy! I loved that and it reminded me of a similarity of what my word might be..
  • Then, I went to my mom’s group and we exchanged our thoughts about our words, several of the words that stand out a few days later are adore, joy, fullness. Yes, all of these things.
  • Then, we started a study on James in my couples small group. Week 2, day 1 is all about JOY and verse 2 of James 1. Which, clearly, I’ve been mulling over anyway. And as Beth Moore says in this study,

The word consider calls us to a mental exercise. Not an emotion. James isn’t telling us to have a knee-slapper over all we’re going through. He’s telling us to think, to reflect, and to esteem the unalloyed joys available to us, “whenever [we] experience various trials.”

And wow, oh wow, JOY as James talked about it. To consider it joy, not just feel joy. That if not, trials will steal our joy.

Talk about repetition. I think I get it.

How much I need JOY in my life.

JOY chose me. I’m so glad. One sweet three letter word.

Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything

Oh, 2012, you are my ode to

Have you picked your one word yet? What is it? I would love to know! If you’re not familiar with it, check out this page on how to choose your word!

baby L. i’m so in love.

although somedays are really, really hard, most days are beautiful. and amazing. and you, are 1000 gifts, all in one.

my list, my word

Update: I’ve decided to change my word since this post was written, read more about it here.

This year has been a year of lists. So far. And we’re 6 days in.

These lists consist of what to read, what to make, goals to strive for, personal, financial, and beyond.

But the most compelling of lists is this one that was inspired by a book I just got for Christmas. The book, One Thousand Gifts, has captured my heart in every possible way. It was exactly what I needed to read at exactly this point in time. Isn’t it funny that the One who knows us so intimately, who created our every fiber, knows the exact number of hairs on my head, cares what I read, cares what I let my mind rest on during the day and in the night. 

Before I’ve shut my eyes into slumber in these first few days of twenty twelve, my mind has pondered eucharistio, a greek word that Ann Voskamp, the author, locks into early into the book’s pages. And, I, too have wondered, have pondered, what does it take to live a full life as Christ intended? Scripture makes it clear that it’s possible and attainable… but what must we do to seize this life? To take it all in and not get caught into the things that matter least, but rather be captivated by things that matter most.

I’ve decided, based on my own experiences, that it does take intentionality, that it takes DOING something. Not saying you are going to do it, and certainly not making a list declaring you will do it, you must actually DO it.

In fact, Ann cites a fantastic quote on the matter by Pierre de Caussade,

When one is thirsty one quenches one’s thirst by drinking, not be reading books which treat of this condition.

Ann goes on,

If we are dying of thirst, passively reading books about water quenches little; the only way to quench the parched mouth is to close the book and dip the hand into water and bring it to the lips. If we thirst, we’ll have to drink. I would have to do something.

Ann started this wonderful journey of writing down gifts, not to buy, not for someone else, but the gifts of God, a love list of sorts. She begins this list, of gifts, of one thousand of them, and realizes that she is changing. That she starts to see things differently.

I’m not so great at writing, no, not like Ann, but in reading this book, it was somehow my words, my thoughts, said 20 times more eloquently than I could ever dare.

So because of this, my one word this year, is also my list of one thousand. Eucharestio. Thanksgiving. Gratitude. Grace. Joy. Yes, in one profound greek word, that Ann explains, always precedes the miracle. Jesus gave thanks (even in not -enough), Daniel gave thanks, Paul gave thanks, yes… thanksgiving. So, for non-greek scholars, my word is Thank-full (yes with two l’s, to be FULL of thanks). For greek scholars, and readers of One Thousand Gifts, my one word is Eucharisteo.

It is also my challenge, to list 1000 things over the course of this year that I am thankful for. I believe that it will be a stretching experience, a lesson on gratitude, that I intend to fully inhale. I am up to twenty nine in my list currently. It is an exercise in gratitude.

I am only on chapter 5, of 1000 gifts and already feel my heart expanding. I am so thank-full! 

 

dear liam, (month four)

Is time flying? Or is it just me? Regardless, you, little bean (which I affectionately call you, along with a myriad of other names) are growing up at a rapid speed, faster than the speed of light, it does seem. You are causing my heart to grow, and the capacity by which I knew what love was. You are redefining a lot of things in life for me, which is causing some growing pains (for me & you) both. I am thankful that you have learned to stretch your sleep out at nighttime, and even naptimes.

Many things are getting better, including me as your momma getting used to you being in my life. For the longest time I would wake up in the night and remember, “oh yeah, we have a baby!” but I don’t seem to really do that anymore. I remember that it’s you, and you in all of who you are. I know you now. That’s the biggest difference of this month from the prior 3 months. I know your cries and what they mean, I know your smiles, your laughs, your snuggles. I view the hardest times as gateways into the best of times with you. I know that these little mental leaps and learning that you are doing, are leading into the next thing. Which for you this month has been pulling yourself up, supporting your head, and the biggest one, rolling over! Your rolling over had caused the most difficulty. Your daddy says it’s like a super hero with a brand new power, that he does not yet know how to control. It’s exactly that, your superpower.

I love you sweet Liam. I love all of you. I love being your momma.

love,

your momma

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