That’s amazing, that tiny phrase amongst other nuggets of wisdom. Here is how it is said in the Message:
Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life. (Phil 4:7)
But what’s most amazing about it, is when it’s lived. When you see that there is a peace that can surpass understanding altogether. Meaning, don’t try to get it, cause you won’t be able to. Just trust.
Jeremy and I started in Financial Peace about 5 weeks ago, and now, not only do we feel like we now have a better handle on our budget and where our dollars are going, we also feel like there is a Peace that now exists in our household. If you’ve followed our story, you know that we’ve been married close to 8 months (we know it’s not long, we’re not bragging) and we’ve had our share of trying to figure out finances on our own, something just didn’t click.
We needed another authority, we needed community, we needed the Church (big C).
If you’ve followed my blog or twitter for any amount of time, you know that I love coffee, especially the kind that is prepared in little cafe’s that I can sit and read, journal, and work in. There’s something about it. Well, one of the things that had to be trimmed down, was inevitably my coffee budget, I knew it was coming, I fought it hard those first 5 months of our marriage. I was used to buying what I wanted when I wanted and I knew that was all about to change. Then it did.
I have a meager coffee budget of $20 a month (if you’re not a coffee drinker, you cannot understand the significance of this number). An iced caramel macchiato at Starbucks (my fave) is close to $5. A latte of any kind is atleast $4, and the list goes on. How would I make it a whole month on 4 coffee drinks? I prayed, (maybe I shouldn’t have) for coffee gift cards at Christmas time, and got several (it almost doubled my coffee budget for January!) but then February hit, what was I to do? Lucky for me, I had spent only $2 out of my coffee budget and my gift cards… then it hit me.
I’m doing it, just by having a budget, and knowing it, I’m sticking to it.
Now granted, I was still going over a little bit, I mean, a teensy, tiny bit, less than a dollar. Jeremy gently warned that I had still gone over. So that amount was subtracted from the next month. This month, I am in the envelope method, and I am only HALF WAY trough the month and my coffee money has depleted significantly. I have ,$2.37 left in my coffee budget for the next 15 days. I guess I need to figure out a way to ration better next month.
But then, God reminds me ever so gently how he’s providing for me.
- Starbucks has free coffee today if you bring in a travel mug.
- Port City Java has continually hooked me up with free coffee recently from facebook and from the Twestival. (Did I mention PCJ is amazing? They make such a difference in the community, too!)
I need to remember these things, because there will be more. He is providing and He will, even in the small things, even in the trivial coffee budget things, He cares about us and gives us peace that surpasses understanding.
Those interested in learning more about financial peace, here is the introductory video
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLX3wUY1xGg&feature=related[/youtube]
it’s being offered at Port City Community Church:
Hop on this, it will change your life.